Reframe Your SELF 1ST

Everything changes when identity changes.

REFRAME Learning Portal

Guiding Question

Who must I become… to consistently produce the life I’m trying to build?

Everything changes when identity changes.

This learning portal is designed to help you intentionally REFRAME your identity—one stage, one chapter and one lesson at a time.

Whether you choose to begin at Stage 00 or jump directly to the lesson that speaks to your current season, your journey begins with one decision:

To become someone capable of producing different results.

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Reject Your Old SELF

Stage 00: YOU before Identity Shift

Awareness precedes transformation.

Before lasting transformation can begin, you must become aware of the identity you’ve been unconsciously living from.

Ask yourself: What must I leave behind?

1 Chapter

Chapter 00: Your Starting Point

You’ve Attracted Into Your Life Exactly Who YOU Are

  • Page 9 – Audio Lesson: Get unStuck From The Pattern of Defeat, Disappointment and Disconnect (AUD1000a) – In Production
  • Page 12 – Thinking Like A PIMP: A Deep Dive Into A Dangerous Distinction – In Production

Choose Your SELF

Stage 01: YOU with Integrity

Integrity begins with intentional choice.

Integrity begins when you intentionally choose who you will become rather than reacting to who you’ve been.

Ask yourself: Who am I choosing to become?

3 Chapters

Chapter 01: Discover Your Greatest Overlooked Strength

What Is The Single, Most Fascinating Quality About YOU That You’ve Repeatedly Taken For Granted?

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 27 – Audio Lesson: Be Visible, Distinct, Recognizable and Remembered (AUD1001a) – In Production
Chapter 02: Leverage Your Greatest Strength

How Does This Single Quality Benefit YOU In Your Day-To-Day Affairs?

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 38 – Audio Lesson: Give Them The Content About YOU… Worthy of Conversation (AUD1002a) – In Production
Chapter 03: Master Your Greatest Strength

What Painful Consequence Have YOU Experienced Repeatedly Because YOU Haven’t Learned To Control and Direct Your Single, Most Fascinating Quality?

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 68 – Audio Lesson: When Your Single Most Fascinating Quality Disappoints YOU… Do This (AUD1003a) – In Production

Be Your SELF

Stage 02: YOU with Distinction

Distinction is expressed, not manufactured.

Distinction develops as you embrace the unique strengths, patterns and gifts that make you unlike anyone else.

Ask yourself: How do I live authentically?

6 Chapters

Chapter 04: Discover How You Think Best

StrengthsFinder Top 5: Your Most Reliable Thinking System (especially Under Pressure)

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 80 – Audio Lesson: Tap In To The Thought System Perfectly Crafted For YOU (AUD1004a) – In Production
Chapter 05: Discover How You Naturally Love Others

Love Languages Mingle: The Deliberate and Authentic Loving Actions That Make YOU Come Alive

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 98 – Audio Lesson: Make Others Come Alive When YOU Arrive (AUD1005a) – In Production
Chapter 06: The Courage To Stand Out

Why StandOUT When It’s Safer To Blend IN: Because SELF Leadership Demands Distinction, Direction and Defiance

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 117 – Audio Lesson: STOP Blending IN: Be Distinct, Give Direction and Employ Defiance (AUD1006a) – In Production
Chapter 07: Understanding Your DiSC Wiring

It’s Your Wiring, Not Your Weirdness, That Holds The Key To Understanding The Power of DiSC

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 140 – Audio Lesson: Embrace Your Weirdness and Understand Your Wiring (AUD1007a) – In Production
Chapter 08: Become Naturally Fascinating

Unlearn Boring. Then Engage, Delight and Provoke Others Using Your Fascination Advantage.

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 152 – Audio Lesson: Engage, Delight and Provoke Others (AUD1008a) – In Production
Chapter 09: Build Your Personal Blueprint

Your Strengths BLUEPRINT FRAME

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 165 – Audio Lesson: Deliver Xponential RELIEF and Unmistakably Relevant Value (AUD1009a) – In Production

Share Your SELF

Stage 03: YOU in Dominion

Your influence expands as your identity matures.

Dominion expands when your identity begins creating value beyond yourself.

Ask yourself: How do I create value for others?

7 Chapters

Chapter 10: Understand Your Complete Design

Your Complete FRAME: Get Biological

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 209 – Audio Lesson: reFRAME The Hierarchy of Needs With The Source YOU At The TOP Of The Pyramid (AUD1010a) – In Production
Chapter 11: Understand Your Masculine & Feminine Energy

Your Masculine and Feminine Energy Dynamic FRAME

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 251 – Audio Lesson: Explore The 4 Strategies For Constructing Your New Reality: Your Core INNER Motivation (AUD1011a) – In Production
Chapter 12: Leading With Masculine Energy

Insightfully PREEMINENT: 80% Masculine Lead with a 20% Feminine Support

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 283 – Audio Lesson: Repair YOU, Rejuvenate YOU and Realign YOU Throughout The Journey (AUD1012a) – In Production
Chapter 13: Leading With Feminine Energy

Creatively PERSUASIVE: 80% Feminine Lead with a 20% Masculine Support

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 323 – Audio Lesson: Preparing For The Monumental Task Of reCREATING Your SELF (AUD1013a) – In Production
Chapter 14: Expand Your Influence

Your DOMINION of Influence FRAME

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 343 – Audio Lesson: You’ve Got To Feel YOU Completely To reFRAME YOU Remarkably (AUD1014a) – In Production
Chapter 15: Develop Emotional Intelligence

Your emoINTELLIGENCE FRAME (SELF 1ST)

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 359 – Audio Lesson: Break Free From The Story You’ve Told Your SELF For Years (AUD1015a) – In Production
Chapter 16: Discover Your God Design

Your GOD Design FRAME (Masculine and Feminine Energy Fusion for Masterful PRODUCTION)

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 405 – Audio Lesson: Repurpose The Intense, Passionate and Creative Energy Behind Your Fiercest Emotions and Change What YOU No Longer Want To Experience (AUD1016a) – In Production

Refine Your SELF

Stage 04: YOU as Disrupter

Mastery is never finished.

Transformation becomes sustainable through continual refinement, correction and intentional growth.

Ask yourself: How do I continue growing without drifting?

5 Chapters

Chapter 17: Create With Confidence

HCI Vision Frame 01: CREATE With Certainty

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 419 – Audio Lesson: HCI Vision Frame 01: CREATE A Higher Quality of Life Through A Personal Code and Program (AUD1017a) – In Production
Chapter 18: End Self-Sabotage

HCI Vision Frame 02: END Repeated Failure Through SELF Control

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 433 – Audio Lesson: HCI Vision Frame 02: END Commitments or Agreements That No Longer Serve Me and My Family (AUD1018a) – In Production
Chapter 19: Protect Your Future

HCI Vision Frame 03: LEAVE The Disloyal, Unreliable and Inconsistent Behind

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 449 – Audio Lesson: HCI Vision Frame 03: LEAVE Power, Persuasion and Production Diminishers w/o Conflict or Regret (AUD1019a) – In Production
Chapter 20: Return To Your Standard
  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 471 – Audio Lesson: HCI Vision Frame 04: RESTORE What I Gave Up To Support Some ONE Else’s Dream – No Compromise (AUD1020a) – In Production
Chapter 21: Become The Disrupter

The Birth of A Disrupter

  • Page 24 – The SECRET F.L.O.W. Life Alterator Canvas (Link)
  • Page 475 – Audio Lesson: The 19 Characteristics of a Disrupter (AUD1021a) – In Production

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